« dear god | Main | a notice i never wanted to write »

13 April 2009


Feed You can follow this conversation by subscribing to the comment feed for this post.


I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I hope you find small moments of peace to get you through this terrible time. God bless you and your whole family.

Deborah Mele

I am so sorry for your loss. I lost a baby girl myself many years ago and although the pain has subsided I still miss her and think of her often. You have many people praying for your family at this moment which hopefully may help in some small way.


I know there is nothing any of us could say to ease your pain or lessen your grief. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. From one Mother to another.... you are in my thoughts and prayers as well as your husband and daughters. I am so very sad and sorry for you.

Ky Eliza

I am so deeply sorry about your beautiful baby.

Melissa in TN

I am so sorry for your loss. Wish there were something I could say or do to comfort you.... Thinking of you all.

Classy Mommy

I am so sorry for your loss. My heart is breaking for you and your family. Thinking of you all.


You and your family are in my prayers

Justice Jonesie

May God give you strength and peace during this time. My heart and prayers go out to ou and your family.

Carrie Oliver

Thalon is a beautiful boy, present tense. If I could I would sprinkle some love over you and say, it's okay, he's where he needs to be and that's with you, in your (and now my) heart.

Ms. George

I'm so, so sorry. My prayers are with you, for what that is worth from a stranger. Other words fail me...


beyond heart broken for you and your family. sending prayers and peace.


Like many who've posted, I don't know you personally, but I share in your grief just the same. Thank you for allowing us to know Thalon through your loving words and pictures. He will never be forgotten.


I am so, so, sorry.


So heartbreaking! You and your family are in my prayers!

Gwen Jackson

I don't know you but I am crying right now reading what you wrote. That pain - oh my god. I can't imagine. Please now that I am praying for you and your family as you grieve your sweet baby.


I'm so sorry for your devastating loss.


I'm so sorry that you must say goodbye to your sweet little guy so soon...


So very very sorry. My thoughts are with you.


My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family . XOXO.


I don't know you but heard about Thalon from twitter. I am so sorry that you had to lose your baby so soon. I have a 4 month old and she is my third. She was born premature and I was so scared to lose her. I will be praying for you and your family. May Thalon and Maddie and all the other babies up in heaven smile down on you.


Kristie told us about your loss -- I can't imagine what you are going through, but you are in my prayers. You are a wonderful (funny, sarcastic, but always, absolutely loving) mother, and you will survive this terrible thing because you LOVE Celia, Moira, Rich, and of course, Thalon. I am so very sorry.

Sophia Leto (aka Moody Mommy)

I am so sorry for your loss. Please know you have people who care about you.


I am here from LFCA. My heart is aching for you and there are no words to express my sadness for you. This isn't fair. (((Hugs)))


OMG, I am so sorry. A loss like yours just breaks my heart in so many pieces. I am hoping someday you'll be able to find healing somehow. Please be gentle to yourself.


please know that there are people in Australia who are sending love and white light. I pray you will get through this unimaginable pain.


I am so sorry for your loss. You have my prayers.

Amanda L

There aren't any words. I'm sorry. So, so sorry. You, your family and your sweet baby are all in my prayers.


I'm so sorry for your loss. There are a lot of things in life that just don't seem right and this is one of them. I'll be praying for you and your family.

Nicole MIller

I don't know you, never met you, but I am still quite certain that the very sweetest moments of his life were spent with you. And that is something.


I am so very sorry. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.


I'm so sorry to read this news. The tears just keep flowing as I read on. I don't know if this helps, but I'm keeping you in my thoughts. I don't think there are any perfect words to say at a time like this, except that there are lots of people sending their love your way.


I'm so very sorry.


Sending you love from VT. Heard about you through Leah. I am so sorry for your loss. From one mother to another....


Another angel has left the earth. May his spirit continue to lighten the world on the days where darkness takes over.

Many prayers to your family for continued strength.

Thalon has done his part if only for a short time...he had brought countless joy to your day.

God Bless!


i'm sorry...really really sorry. prayers headed your way.


Our hearts, thoughts, tears, prayers, deep sympathy is with you.

Karen (miscmum)

I am so so sorry. I am thinking of your family with my love x


May God help you and your family get through this difficult and horrible time. You have to be strong so you can be there for your children. Hold on to your faith. You are in my prayers..


Shana, I hope you keep writing. Even if your posts are sad. One day....even though you may not believe this now...you will find your humorous voice again. You did not fail your baby. This was out of your control.


I am so very sorry for your loss....no parent should ever have to face this. Sending big hugs to you from Canada. xoxo

Tiffany Morris

I am so sorry to hear of your loss! Please know that we are praying for you over here in Arkansas! Hugs - Tiff


so sorry. praying for you & your family.

Poker Chick

I am so, so sorry for your loss. You are in the thoughts of all your fellow moms here.


Please have my deepest sympathies at this time. I have no words, only to say your beautiful sweet boy was born on the same day as my cousin, and I will be holding him closer tonight


My heart is just breaking for you and your family. I wish I could take away your hurt. Your faith and love of your family will get you through this. I am so sorry. My deepest sympathies.


I found you through Maggie, and I am just heartsick for you. Please accept my deepest sympathies.


I don't know you. I found out about your tragedy through some link on some website, I cannot even say where. The tears I've shed over your loss are insignificant compared to the tears, the sobs, the screams, the hurts you have suffered and will suffer, but I want you to know that you've touched me. The passing of your son has touched me. Sympathies, condolences, thoughts: I offer you those, though they are nowhere near enough. Seek peace in remembrance.


I'm so sorry to hear this. You have my sympathy. I came over from Loralee's Trauma post. ;(
Sad times. I had seen someone RT the request for prayers on twitter and sent some good energy your way. I'm so sorry that the collective unconscious wasn't enough for your little one.

Kate @ http://lipstickdaily.com

Unfathomable is right.
I am so, so sorry for your loss.
My prayers are with you and your family.

The Glamorous Life Association

Sometimes. Life. JUST SUCKS. No words to consol or explain.

Greif is the price we pay for experiencing true love.

So so sorry for your loss.

The comments to this entry are closed.

doing it for the red bull

pin it!

  • Follow Me on Pinterest


  • Welcome to Flickr - Photo Sharing
    This is a Flickr badge showing public photos from shanaball. Make your own badge here.



  • All Rights Reserved - No Kidding!
    Any unauthorized use or blatant use of content on this page, including, but not limited to, photographs and/or text is prohibited.


  • shhh

  • Circle of Moms Top Mom Bloggers

Become a Fan